• Please Pray for Troops & Chaplains,  Redeeming Church Conflicts

    Whether Soldiers Too Can Be Saved

    Professor Veith has an interesting post based on an interview with Gen. John W. Vessey, whose distinguished military career including not only combat in WWII, Korea, and Vietnam, but serving as the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff under President Reagan. In it, he quotes a Martin Luther pamphlet (entitled Whether Soldiers Too Can Be Saved). Worth the read! A Soldier’s Vocation

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  • Singleness & Marriage

    A Happy (but embarrassing) 17th Wedding Anniversary

    We’ve enjoyed a restful Sabbath—that also happened to be our 17th wedding anniversary. Piles of chaos were left out around the house after our two weeks of hosting guests and we dove into numerous games (all of us) and videos (the kids and Fred) and time to just talk and be. It was refreshing—but also a tad embarrassing when we pulled out our box o’ love letters and our wedding scrapbook. I didn’t remember being so sappy! But I was. Verbal and sappy—not a great combination. Still, it was very fun to discover that Fred switched from a secret admirer to a not-so-secret-admirer on December 17th (1993)—ten years to the day…

  • Relationships & Peacemaking

    Pursuing Peace: A Christian Guide to Handling Our Conflicts

    I just added Robert D. Jones’ new book to my LibraryThing and I can’t wait to read it: Pursuing Peace: A Christian Guide to Handling Our Conflicts I’m a big fan of his other book (Uprooting Anger: Biblical Help for a Common Problem) and I have greatly appreciated his wisdom over the years I have known him because of our mutual work with Peacemaker Ministries.   Thanks, Pastor Jones, for blessing us all with this book. And many thanks to Crossway for publishing it too! I just know it’s going to be great … 

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    Meet the Superhumans

    When I met my now-husband, Fred, he was one semester into his Master’s degree in Mechanical Engineering with a secondary focus of rehabilitation engineering. The title of his thesis was Dynamic Analysis of Handrim Wheelchair Propulsion: Verification and Analysis of System and Pilot Testing. (And how fun is this? I just found his thesis online on Google books–he even has his very own QR code. Pretty snazzy!) Anyway … When we were falling in love and getting engaged and RIGHT up to our wedding (he published his thesis the week before our wedding), I spent a lot of time in his research lab, which was located in the same building…

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    Eight Things to Keep in Mind Regarding Conflict

    Of course there are many important points regarding the heart, functional idolatry/wrong worship, and gospel change that this pastor does not cover in his “eight things” list.  But it’s still a great list and definitely worth the read: Eight Things to Keep in Mind in Regards to Conflict at Work/Church (HT: Z) 

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  • Hope in Suffering,  Sin & Repentance

    How Do You Handle Pain?

    As God has graciously led me to turn and face some bad patterns in my life—habits related to relationships, spiritual disciplines (the most important relationship), life and work duties, health choices—many Scriptures, teachings, and quotes keep coming to my mind at apt moments: If you starve your cravings, they will lessen. Sin separates, the Cross unites. That which is done in secret, with guilt, is never loving of God or neighbor. Wisdom is learning to love what is good for you. Real life is life that is Coram Deo.   But the one phrase that is currently helping me the most is this: How do you handle pain, Tara? You…

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  • Fear Not!

    Irrational Fears (but they feel pretty real … and they had SOME bases in reality)

    Tomorrow I will drive my two young daughters over the (stunning! amazing!) Bozeman Pass: Our time in Bozeman will be brief—just enough time to tour the Museum of the Rockies with my best friend and her daughter—and then to steal away her daughter for a five-day visit. You would think I would only be happy and excited about this trip. But this morning on my walk with Lilikoi (our Golden Retriever), I was besieged by all sorts of (extremely) irrational fears related to the drive: What if I just jerk the wheel of my SUV at 75 mph and we roll and crash and all die? What if I change…

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    Might Be Adding a Fourth “Go-To” Recipe: Marinated Flank Steak

    As many of you know, I am 42 years old and still haven’t learned how to cook. But I do have three recipes I can make with relatively consistent success—they are easy, tasty, relatively nutritious, and they meet all of my requirements for giving myself credit re: homemaker-y cooking-ness: You have to do some sort of prep to individual components A recipe and measuring utensils are required and used You apply heat (Yes, yes, I know there are lots of recipes that don’t need heat. And of course I know that REAL cooks don’t need recipes and NEVER measure. But for me, the above three steps are like climbing Mt.…

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