• Relationships & Peacemaking

    Sure I Have Forgiven You — But Now I Know Not to Trust You. Ever.

    Without getting into the complexities of major offenses (involving criminal activities, civil authorities, etc.) … Thinking only of the relatively mundane (but truly hurtful!) real-life conflicts that we all face in our workplaces, marriages, parenting, friendships, churches, schools, etc …Have you ever thought (or even SAID) something like this? “Sure. I forgive you. You bet. No problem. [But NOW I know the REAL YOU and I know to never EVER be real with you or trust you again.]” It’s almost as though we know we “HAVE TO” forgive, so we offer some token “Christian” words. But all the while, we are closing down our hearts. Tight. Locked. “You can’t hurt…

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    Required to Do What I Cannot Do

    Today I had a very uncomfortable few hours wherein I wrestled with this reality: I was being required to do something that I simply could not do. It wasn’t immoral or illegal. (Thank God! I’d had THAT situation erupt as a first year associate attorney back in Chicago and I have to say, it’s shocking and horrible when you have to face that, “How will I respond?!?” question re: ethics / convictions / and your ability to pay back $73,000 in grad school loans. I chose to walk away, of course. But it was a frightening / the room is SPINNING / who am I REALLY kind of moment.) Today…

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    Pioneer Woman

    I’ve only poked around for 2 minutes, so I have no idea if there is objectionable stuff … so caveat emptor! But thanks to CakeWrecks, I enjoyed stumbling onto this website/blog and I’m hoping to read more whenever (if ever?) have a few minutes to poke around and read things like blogs: The Pioneer Woman    

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    Iowa Orders are ALL Packed Up!

    I just finished packing up ALL of the remaining orders from Iowa … so hopefully you will be receiving them before too long. Only one week late! I’m glad to get them in the mail to you. PLEASE let me know if I made any errors. My brain is very fuzzy these days and I promise to do everything I can to fix things ASAP if I’ve messed anything up. I’m going to pack Fred for his trip to the Peacemaker Conference now and then hopefully get a little sleep tonight. I would really appreciate your prayers for my mom as she found out today that she has to have…

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    Narrowly Avoided a Fourth Surgery Today …

    I’m hesitant to even mention this because I feel like such a hypochondriac. But my friend reminded me today that if you actually have real things wrong with you, you’re not a hypochondriac. SO … I guess I’m just a falling apart HIGH MAINTENANCE woman because today I just barely avoided being sent in for what would’ve been my fourth surgery of the summer. Blech! Apparently, my body felt like giving me one tiny (but painful and inconvenient because of all of the blood) little challenge called a pyogenic granuloma. It’s just a little (but growing) thingy (official medical term is “growth”) that bleeds and bleeds and SHOULDN’T be painful,…

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    Sorry for the Delay, Iowa!

    Just a quick note to the 97 of you from Iowa who placed orders with me this past weekend … I am SO very sorry to have to let you know that for some of you, there will be a tiny delay even for the orders that don’t include that way-too-popular-5-CD-set I mentioned was already completely sold out of on Saturday. I worked into the night and was at the post office as soon as they opened this morning—and I was able to ship SOME of your orders. But Peacemakers just emailed me and told me that now they TOO will be delayed in getting me your resources. (I feel…

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    Thanks Iowa!

    It was a true joy to be with you all, dear Iowa women! I’m working hard to type up your shipping labels and will send them as soon as I possibly can. Thanks for a wonderful weekend!   Yours, Tara B.  

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    Inductive Bible Study (HT: Ajith Fernando)

    I continue to praise God for the ministry of Ajith Fernando and his family! Truly, he is a mighty man of a God; a churchman in the truest sense of the word. And every time I receive a prayer request / update / praise report from him, I am blessed. Like the current one he sent with an “aside” on the importance of inductive Bible study. Oh, friends! This little three-page article is SO worth the read and I would be happy to send it to you if you simply email me and request it. (Don’t forget! I will NEVER give your email address or contact information to ANYONE. This…