• Singleness & Marriage

    Setting Up Your Single Friends (??)

    Carolyn McCulley has a great post over at RadicalWomanhood and I encourage you to check it out: Advice for the Set-Up In it, she responds to a single woman who wrote this: “Mandy said that her cousin invited her to dinner to meet Randy. This is where my question comes in…what do you think about being set up to meet a person of the opposite sex? I am 23 and single, and have encountered a few instances where people have wanted to set me up with a guy. I tend to back away from these opportunities because I do not feel like I should play any part in trying to…

  • Uncategorized

    Are you blase to the gospel?

    Soph’s happily playing over at a playdate and I’m here working hard on my speaker notes for my three conferences next month. (Yes, yes, a generous friend did quickly and happily offer to help me. See what a whiner–for no legitimate reason–I really am? Thank God for His grace!!) In my “organizing” stage of prep, I came across a section of notes from a women’s retreat I did years ago and thought it might be interesting to you. I think that some of these words MAY be directly cribbed from Lane & Tripps, “How People Change” and/or Plantinga’s “Not the Way It’s Supposed to Be: A Breviary of Sin”–the two…

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    Thank you, Anita!!

    Oh my stars! I was feeling so self-conscious about my previous post (Was I too whiny? How can I complain when I have such a blessed life? Maybe I should just take it down …). But then you all started sending such sweet, “I can relate! And I’m clinging to Christ too!” and “Don’t be too hard on yourself!” emails that I thought MAYBE I might just leave it up. And THEN? Dear Anita send me a GREAT HARVEST gift bag filled with LITERALLY our FAVORITE things: The whole wheat bread we used to eat before we moved to thrift store, week-old, 75 cent loafs; raspberry jam–truly our family’s FAVORITE!–granola…

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    Inclined to Mildness and Mercy

    We’re in Chapter 17 of Book 1 in our Blogging the (John Calvin) Institutes journey this week–and I have already been tremendously blessed. I appreciate the many detailed explanations and biblical examples of how all things are divinely ordained by God; the providence of God is to be considered with reference to both the past and the future; God takes care of the whole human race, but is especially vigilant in governing the church, etc. I must admit that “my carnal sense murmured” when he discussed when “calamity takes precedence even of birth”–but we must “use modesty, not as it were compelling God to render an account, but so revering…

  • Relationships & Peacemaking

    Internet Slambook (HT: Andrew from Boston)

    This morning, my friend Andrew (you know him as “Andrew from Boston” as a frequent commenter on this blog) sent me an encouraging note (he’s been encouraging me for ten years now!) and a link to a video that I was glad to have watched: The Internet Slambook In it, the speaker talks about a cruel ritual that girls in her junior high used to do (they created “slambooks” and wrote awful things about other girls in it)–and then she shares some good thoughts about how we are all prone to remember and fixate on harsh criticism we receive (even from relative strangers!) rather than the honest feedback of true…

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    Food Tidings (HT: RadicalWomanhood)

    I am SO far behind the times technologically-wise, that I could only SURMISE what terms like iPhone / iApp actually MEAN. But assuming that most of you are WAY more savvy then me, I wanted to link you over to Carolyn McCulley’s great post on an iPhone app that helps to coordinate MEALS for families in need. We’re still doing this diaconal service the old fashioned way at our church (calls and lists and more calls), but I have tried my best to pass along various websites that help too. (So far, to no avail in our local church.) Maybe the iApp will tip our leaders over into embracing how…

  • Hope in Suffering

    Joy Cannot Co-Exist with Bitterness

    I had a long, hard–but good–day of work yesterday preparing to teach my, “Persevering with Grace when Our Leaders Let Us Down” workshop for a conference next month. It was extremely painful to listen to and re-read examples of people being so horribly hurt within the church–but also so encouraging and edifying to be reminded of their perseverance, even in the midst of extreme suffering. I’m still working to draw my material to a coherent whole (that builds to an “X” and hopefully clearly articulates and explains some God-exalting, biblically-faithful, helpful ideas). But in the interim, I wanted to share with you a few of my random notes: – One…